A friend, relative, and an Unparalleled Physician
Dr Aitharaju Venu Manohar Rao
Reaches
the Blissful Abode
Vanam Jwala Narasimha Rao (Houston
Airport)
CHILDREN'S DOCTOR WITH A CHILD HEART:{{Dr. Aitharaju Venu Manohar Rao (also known as Dr. A.V. Manohar Rao) was a respected pediatrician based in Hyderabad, India. Born on 21 June 1947, he earned his MBBS from Kakatiya Medical College (KMC) in Warangal. In the late 1960s and early 1970s he served as a house surgeon at KMC attached to MGM Hospital, where senior faculty—including surgeons and obstetrician-gynecologists—held him in high regard and frequently collaborated with him on complex family cases.He later pursued higher studies and professional opportunities in the United Kingdom before returning to India. In 1975 he settled in Hyderabad and joined government service as a pediatrician, remaining in public employment until his voluntary retirement in 2002.
After leaving government service he established a private clinic on the ground floor of Arihant Apartments in Ashok Nagar. There he built a strong reputation as one of the city’s most trusted pediatric practitioners, valued for reliability, accessibility, and genuine patient care rather than commercial success.Although trained in pediatrics, colleagues and families routinely sought his counsel on a wide range of medical issues, from routine childhood illnesses to more complex adult and family health concerns. He actively supported public-health initiatives, including pulse-polio immunization campaigns.
Even after formal retirement he continued clinical work and informal consultations for many years, remaining available to patients and relatives until shortly before his death on 7 September 2026. Throughout a career spanning government service and private practice, Dr. Manohar Rao was remembered for his clinical skill, broad medical guidance, and personal compassion}} - Editor Metro India Synoptic Intro to this article
Exactly 41 days after my arrival in Houston, Texas, with
my wife and daughter for a holiday, the saddest news of our lives reached us.
We were preparing for our return journey when we learned that my beloved
brother-in-law, lifelong friend, and guide, Dr Aitharaju Venu Manohar Rao, had
breathed his last and reached the blissful abode of Lord Vishnu. Perhaps it was
coincidence, or simply fate, that when we met Manohar just two days before our
departure, he casually asked, ‘Why now to USA?’ Within moments, however, he
wished us a happy journey and safe travel. Little did I know that those would
be our final words together.
Until barely three weeks before his passing, he continued
to extend medical advice to us, even for minor ailments, particularly to his
beloved sister, Bujji. Suddenly, the familiar voice that had guided and
reassured us for decades fell silent. On September 7, 2026, it became as though
he had simply said, ‘Please, No More. I have a call from the Almighty.’ And
Manohar was no more. We both, and daughter Bunti (Prema) immediately confirmed
our return journey to Hyderabad for one last glimpse of his departed soul.
Kinnera and Aditya (My daughter and son residing in Houston) too were almost in
tears along with us.
Our relationship began in the late 1950s, when we were
both about ten years old. I joined Rikab-Bazar High School in Mamillagudem,
Khammam, and that was when Manohar and I became friends. That friendship
endured for nearly seven decades and deepened immeasurably when I married his
sister, Bujji (Vijayalaxmi), in April 1969. I still vividly remember our
wedding. Manohar, guided by his father, virtually steered the arrangements from
the bride’s side. His eldest brother was away in the UK, and Manohar, though
still very young, had already assumed the role of the ‘Young Head of the
Family.’ His expressions, involvement, and responsibility at every stage remain
fresh in my memory.
After completing my graduation in September 1968 and
marrying in April 1969, I spent about three years in my village. My desire to
pursue higher studies was rekindled, influenced by several relatives on my
in-laws’ side who were pursuing advanced education, and especially by Manohar.
At his suggestion, I decided to seek admission to Nagpur University. During my
first visit to Nagpur, Manohar, then studying MBBS at KMC, Warangal, accompanied
me. His encouragement eventually helped me secure a seat there.
While I was a student in Nagpur, I received a letter from
him that remains one of the most significant letters of my life. It concerned
Bujji’s health and revealed a maturity and sense of responsibility far beyond
his years. In December 1968, Bujji developed fatigue followed by severe pain on
the left side of her abdomen. An X-ray and clinical examination suggested a
kidney stone requiring immediate treatment. Further investigations, all
carefully pursued under Manohar’s guidance even though he was still a medical
student, indicated that her left kidney was not functioning properly.
Manohar took her to Warangal to consult the eminent
surgeon, Dr KR Prasad Rao. Considering her very young age, only 15, the doctor
advised removal of the ureteric stone first and recommended waiting before
deciding whether the non-functioning kidney itself needed removal. Accordingly,
major surgery to remove the stone was performed on March 15, 1968. But for
Manohar’s intervention, this might never have happened. Eight months after our
marriage, an examination at MGM Hospital, Warangal, confirmed that the kidney
remained non-functional.
Leaving it untreated could endanger the other kidney, and
nephrectomy was therefore considered necessary. The difficult question was how
to inform me, because by then I was not even aware of the earlier surgery. That
was when Manohar wrote me a deeply moving letter—convincing, confident, yet
respectful of my right to decide. With complete faith in him, I said ‘YES.’ What
impressed me most was not merely his medical judgment, but the responsibility
with which he exercised it. Although barely 22 years old, he did not impose his
decision on me.
He offered another consultation if I wished and assured
me that he and his brother would take Bujji anywhere in the world for
treatment, regardless of cost. Before the final decision, he arranged another
IVP test, confirmed the need for surgery, and gently explained the situation to
my parents. On January 10, 1970, Dr Prasad Rao performed the nephrectomy at MGM
Hospital. The surgery was successful. More than 56 years later, by God’s grace,
all is well. I have often felt that Manohar was nothing less than God in human
form in that chapter of our lives. His concern for his sister continued
virtually until the day before his last breath.
When Bujji became pregnant for the first time, Manohar, then
working as a house surgeon at KMC attached to MGM Hospital, arranged her
consultation with Dr T Padma, Professor of Obstetrics and Gynecology. He was so
highly regarded by his professors that Dr Padma generously provided
accommodation for Bujji and her mother in her own home. Together with Dr Prasad
Rao’s advice, every aspect of her care was attentively handled.
Our daughter, Bunti (Prema), was born on July 8, 1971.
Her bond with her uncle remained so deep that she was literally rendered
speechless on hearing of his untimely demise. Before she and Bujji returned
from Warangal, the ever-courteous Manohar invited about 25 prominent friends
and relatives, including Dr Prasad Rao and his family, Dr Padma and her family,
and several medical colleagues, and hosted a dinner at his home.
Manohar was also the bridge through which some of my
enduring friendships began. He introduced me to BVSS Sharma, son-in-law of
Customs and Central Excise Officer Anjaneyulu. My acquaintance with BK Rao also
came through him. Both had known Manohar since their Warangal days in the early
1970s. After going to the UK for higher studies and employment, Manohar
returned to Hyderabad in 1975, a year after I joined BHEL Higher Secondary
School as Librarian.
For a few days, before he could rent a small house in
nearby Chickadpally, his family stayed with us. Those days remain precious
memories of our growing families and enduring friendship. Later, when my family
lived in Ashok Nagar, our son Aditya faced a serious health problem with
infantile eczema (atopic dermatitis), affecting his entire body and causing him
considerable discomfort. Manohar was once again our pillar of support. He accompanied
my wife to dermatologists and remained closely involved in his care.
On another occasion, Aditya developed severe diarrhea.
When the medicine initially prescribed did not help, Manohar advised us to move
first to Chary Nursing Home and later to Niloufer Children’s Hospital, where
his friend Dr Suresh was working. Once again, everything turned out well, and,
as always, Manohar was with us throughout.
After opening his clinic in Ashok Nagar, Manohar soon
became one of Hyderabad’s leading pediatric practitioners, not in terms of
wealth, but in terms of trust, service, and affection. Though a pediatrician by
profession, his knowledge and willingness to help extended far beyond
pediatrics. From a simple cold or cough to cardiac problems, cancer, urinary
infections, and countless other concerns, people turned to him because they
trusted him. His medical practice was never merely a profession. It was an
expression of his concern for people.
There was another quality of Manohar that I have always
admired. On his return from the UK, he once told me that in Britain one should
invariably begin a conversation with ‘Please’ and end it with ‘Thank you.’ He
adopted those words so completely that they became part of his personality. In
doing so, without preaching, he taught all of us the quiet power of courtesy
and respect. Manohar leaves behind far more than memories.
He leaves behind an example, of how to shoulder family
responsibility at a young age, how to serve without expecting recognition, how
to combine professional excellence with human compassion, how to remain
available to those in need, and how to make courtesy a way of life. For me, he
was simultaneously a childhood friend, beloved brother-in-law, trusted adviser,
family physician, and one of the finest human beings I have known. Our
association began when we were children and continued almost until his final
breath.
The pain of losing him is immeasurable. Yet gratitude is
stronger than grief when I look back at the extraordinary life he shared with
all of us. Manohar, my dear friend and brother-in-law, you served your family,
your patients, your friends, and humanity with distinction. Your physical
presence may have ended, but your kindness, wisdom, affection, and example will
remain with us forever. May your soul rest in eternal peace at the blissful
abode of Lord Vishnu.


















